And yes. I said "insecure". Because doesn't a person have to be extremely insecure to risk ruining a relationship and hurting the one person that's been down for them over fucking phone calls and emails? Is finding out 'you've still got it' worth breaking the heart of the person who really loves you?
How desperate are you for acceptance and the admiration of thots (and yes- men can be thots too) that you would lie to the person who cooks your food? (Not the smartest thing to do, btw).